Why We Need A Lot Of Shoes?

Past.. it’s not just a past.. whether we deal with it, learn from it and get over it. Unless you want to waste your time mourning, regretting, and on and on..
But the trauma behind every single mistakes that we face on the past it’ll still there. Because no matter what we do we can’t escape from it. Maybe, I’ll say I didn’t care.. It’s just a shield to cover up the scars.

We afraid of height because we’ve fell
We afraid of the dark because we’ve heard those creepy stories
We afraid of having best friends because we’ve been betrayed or we’ve heard stories about betrayal
We afraid of love because we’ve been hurt, we’ve heard the stories of the whole cheating things.. the whole divorces things..

Then how can we recover?
Because someday.. The time for us to fall in love will come.. Unconsciously we’ll fall for someone.. No matter how big and strong our shield it’ll break down when we fell in love.
So is this mean that we’re gambling?

Well, in my opinion.. I don’t think so..
Because I think, we can control it by learn from the past
We make preparation so that we won’t make the same mistake twice
Or do we won’t make mistake just like they did
I know it seems that it’s so easy to say
But to denying our feelings just because we‘re afraid of what may come in the future is such a coward action. Because life is just different to each of us.
We have a different shoes, and with that shoes you’re the one who decide where you want to go. I’m not saying that we can be 100% safe, but it’s better to have preparation so that it won’t damage that much.
Just like preparing a boot for winter, a flip-flop for summer, a high-heels for party, etc..

So.. you.. we.. I better have a good sense of “style” in choosing our shoes..