Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Expired Date

Expired date:
Female: 25-30

We can find those labels on most Indonesian. Woman should get married, take care of their husband, have kids, take care of their in laws, cook, clean.. and they have to do it before their 30s.
Who said that? Who claimed that statement?
Why would we... Women have to make a limit for our self?

We have to make no expired date for our self.
We need to able to do whatever it is we want to do.. we don’t need to get married just because the society will think that we are single desperate and lonely. NO!!
We are allowed to stay single, happy, and successful no matter how old we are!

GOD didn’t make any statement that said we have to be married before our 30s
Government didn’t make laws that said we are not allowed to stay single after our 30s

That label came because we made it.
We feel insecure.. Afraid that we’ll ended up all alone and lonely...
NO... We don’t need to rush our self, we don’t need to be embarrassed or scare...

Until...
You found the ONE, than we don’t need to be scare of the ‘expired date’.
Because if we commit, we have to do it like we meant it.
Do it with all of your heart.. Don’t take it half way..

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