"For a kiss to be really good, you want it to mean something. You want it to be with someone you can't get out of your head, so that when your lips finally touch you feel it everywhere. A kiss so hot and so deep you never want to come up for air. You can't cheat your first kiss. Trust me, you don't want to. Cause when you find that right person for a first kiss, it's everything." - Alex Karev from grey's Anatomy
I've never been kissed!
There I said it.. it's true!! no need to be surprised!
I am 21 and I've never been kissed!
I've been in a relationship 2 times and in a few flings
But.. I just can't do the 'KISS'
I don't know why.. it's like my heart telling me that 'He's not the ONE'. I know it'll sound ridiculous and corny, but this is ME. I can't lie to myself..
And to be honest.. I've never actually said 'I LOVE YOU'.. or in Indonesian it will be 'aku sayang kamu'.
cAN'T!!!
It's just a simple words but it just won't come out..
it's so hard that I can't breath..
some people will thing that I am being over reacted or silly or crazy.. but I am not lying.
Will I be able to KISS and TELL?
Only time will answer that..
until then..
I'll continue my journey alone with my freinds and famz!!
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Expired Date
Expired date:
Female: 25-30
We can find those labels on most Indonesian. Woman should get married, take care of their husband, have kids, take care of their in laws, cook, clean.. and they have to do it before their 30s.
Who said that? Who claimed that statement?
Why would we... Women have to make a limit for our self?
We have to make no expired date for our self.
We need to able to do whatever it is we want to do.. we don’t need to get married just because the society will think that we are single desperate and lonely. NO!!
We are allowed to stay single, happy, and successful no matter how old we are!
GOD didn’t make any statement that said we have to be married before our 30s
Government didn’t make laws that said we are not allowed to stay single after our 30s
That label came because we made it.
We feel insecure.. Afraid that we’ll ended up all alone and lonely...
NO... We don’t need to rush our self, we don’t need to be embarrassed or scare...
Until...
You found the ONE, than we don’t need to be scare of the ‘expired date’.
Because if we commit, we have to do it like we meant it.
Do it with all of your heart.. Don’t take it half way..
Female: 25-30
We can find those labels on most Indonesian. Woman should get married, take care of their husband, have kids, take care of their in laws, cook, clean.. and they have to do it before their 30s.
Who said that? Who claimed that statement?
Why would we... Women have to make a limit for our self?
We have to make no expired date for our self.
We need to able to do whatever it is we want to do.. we don’t need to get married just because the society will think that we are single desperate and lonely. NO!!
We are allowed to stay single, happy, and successful no matter how old we are!
GOD didn’t make any statement that said we have to be married before our 30s
Government didn’t make laws that said we are not allowed to stay single after our 30s
That label came because we made it.
We feel insecure.. Afraid that we’ll ended up all alone and lonely...
NO... We don’t need to rush our self, we don’t need to be embarrassed or scare...
Until...
You found the ONE, than we don’t need to be scare of the ‘expired date’.
Because if we commit, we have to do it like we meant it.
Do it with all of your heart.. Don’t take it half way..
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